It is with a sad heart I have to let you lovely people know that my blogging journey has come to an end. Today, I became a professional woman in an incredible company, and it is a sad but very real fact that blogging cannot be a part of my life anymore. I have had the most amazing 4 and a half years with this blog, my tiny little slice of the internet sharing my hopes, dreams, stories, snaps and thoughts with you all – but that time is now over. I will actively continue to read blogs from all over the world, I just can’t write one anymore. Who knows?! Maybe me writing elsewhere will produce something wonderful. Thank you to everyone who has ever read, commented, tweeted, or just stopped by to say hello – it means the world. So internet, thank you and goodnight. Over and out.
I must admit, I’m utterly baffled as to how we’ve ended up at the end of August. This month has been amazing, I’ve finished #masterslife and had a few beautiful weeks off before starting full time life shortly. It’s been a goodun. Here’s what’s happened:
Watching: The Inbetweeners
With the dawn of the new Inbetweeners film (which apparently I won’t find that amusing seeing as I ‘did’ Australia last year) I felt it was necessary to begin the whole series from scratch. I originally watched the first film after a year’s gap from the series and couldn’t see the humour. I’m hoping recapping will make the newest movie even better when I get round to cinematic viewing.
Reading: Bridget Jones, Mad About The Boy – Helen Fielding
The latest Bridget Jones book! I still haven’t finished so pretty please don’t divulge any necessary information from the story line, but I have to say I’m loving it. Only half way through I’ve already laughed, already cried, and already drawn a frightening amount of similarities between myself and Jonesy all these years on (bags of grated cheese anyone?!). A must read.
Listening To: B.O.B
Another Gossip Girl find I’m afraid (guilty!). I previously only knew B.O.B from ‘that song with the one from Paramore’ but I’ve been trawling Spotify and I have to say I’m rather impressed. His tunes make great kitchen choreo too.
Wearing on my Body: Denim Jacket
With this BEAUTIFUL August weather we’ve been having, the sheared denim jacket has just had to make an appearance. A comfy classic.
Wearing on my Face: Nothing
Sorry to be boring, yet again! I have however been testing out my everyday work make-up face and think I’ve pretty much got the look down, so this subsection might be more exciting next month!
This month has seen countless pub trips, restaurant stops, BBQs, family friend buffets and house parties. My social life has been off the chain this month (golly) which has meant I’ve barely cooked! Next month, I’m looking forward to lighting candles and having longer nights in with some autumnal plate of yumminess I’ve conjured.
I think this goes hand in hand with all the social events I’ve been a part of this month – dahling.
What have you been up to this August?
A few days ago, I wrote about how we upped sticks and drove away on a magical forest adventure. Being in the middle of nowhere with dear friends, style really is (and should be!) at the bottom of the list. Thought I’d entertain you with one of my wackier outfits worn throughout the weekend. Enjoy!
Rugby Shirt – Ralph Lauren
Fisherman Pants – India
Vans – Office
Wine – Obligatory
A few weeks ago for boyfriend’s birthday, we upped suburbia and drove north to a beautiful forest somewhere near Leighton Buzzard for a wonderful weekend of camping with some dear friends. Snaps and stories:
The forest was part owned by a few families, with one of the families being family friends of our buddies. It was beautiful, very quiet and set back from the main road, with handmade clearings for us to pitch up. Here’s our fire, before the rains came …
Fortunately, when the rains did arrive, our friends were clever enough to bring a giant sheet of tarpaulin accompanied by bungee hooks, meaning we could make and sit under our own little den when the heavens opened. We had rugs, candles, incense, lanterns – we felt like pixies of the wood!
This beaut of a camping cooker came out of its box for the first time, specifically for this trip, and worked wonders for us! Here’s one of our bog standard meals we whipped up – can’t go wrong with sausages and beans, especially when its chilly. Other culinary wonders included bacon, eggs and burgers. Oh, and soya milk, I’m now addicted to soya milk!
Having a digital detox means you have to find other ways to entertain yourself, one of those ways being games! Here’s our scrabble board and Haribo inspired Texas Hold’em, completed with Blondie’s Greatest Hits blaring from our speakers – the dream!
Another highlight was a woodland walk we went on, well, through farmers lands and a golf course, but near woodland! We found hay bales, rabbit holes, contemplated making nettle tea and hid from tractors. So beautiful to be at one with nature.
So there you have it, our beautiful weekend camping. I’d really encourage you to give it a go, leave behind life for a few days and go and sit in a forest with some good friends, a wine box and a campfire. Let the good times flow.
Technically, spending the last 6 years of my life as a student, all my academic work has been from home. But this year, that’s stepped up a notch. Throughout my undergrad, I lived with friends who were other students; my biggest house was 9. Days were filled with dozy lectures followed by naps and a wild night out. However this year I’ve been enduring #masterslife living with just the boyfriend, who works full time. Lectures have dwindled, instead being replaced with relentless coursework and of course the dissertation (remember the double Ds?!). This means my life has changed, and I’ve entered into the realm of ‘working from home’ …
And I love it. I absolutely love it. Other than the disturbed half an hour when boyfriend wakes up and departs for work, my time is my own, I can use it as I please. I can sleep in, go to the gym, work wherever I please, eat what I want, watch Netflix galore, go shopping, go eating, go drinking … as long as I get my work done.
I’m a hugely organised human. I meticulously plan my work for every day of the week on a Monday morning and make sure I see it through. So as long as I write X amount of words or revise for X amount of hours, I’m cool. I can do whatever I want.
I live in my Pjamas, I make soup every day for lunch, I have 2pm karaoke concerts, binge on Made in Chelsea and make up tap dances. I clean a lot, lounge around with Heat magazine, paint my nails and have 4pm glasses of wine. And when I go out, I go lunching with pals in London, go interiors shopping, saunter around Marks and Spencers or pop to the pub. My time is MINE. As long as I get my work done, the rest I can do with as a I please. It really is wonderful.
Now don’t get me wrong. I work A LOT. And I work HARD. Doing well at my degree means everything to me and if that means I have to have 16 hour working days or nighttime stints in the library, I’ll do it. But I do attempt to plan my days which means I can hang out and have breaks as and when. And it works pretty darn well.
However, my working from home life is coming to a timely end. And at a good time really. I begin fully fledged adult working full time life in a few weeks and working from home life will be a distant memory. I do think that it will make me appreciate home a lot more though. Whilst I love it, I can sometimes take advantage of my beautiful home. It will be wonderful to arrive home at the end of the working day, collapse onto my sofa, look around and say ‘Ahhhh’.
When I look back at this academic year of #masterslife, I think I’ll remember working from home the most fondly. Oh, all the fun I’ve had with me, myself and I. However this chapter is drawing to its close, so for these last few weeks I’m going to milk it for all that its worth. Lie ins, Jeremy Kyle on +1, Netflix galore and inappropriate wine time come at me. My time as a student and from working from home is drawing to a close, but my goodness am I going to make these last few weeks count!
Excuse me, inappropriate wine time is calling.
Well look at us. We’ve made it to the second half of the beautiful year 2014. Part 1 flew by, but writing monthly updates like this really help me see what I’ve been up to. Here’s July:
Watching: Hemlock Grove
Another Netflix original here, with a creepy storyline and a stunning cast. I’m about 6 episodes in and I have to be honest, am still not quite sure what it’s about, but I’m loving every minute of it. It’s absolutely captivating TV and Bill Skarsgard is beaut.
Reading: The Wedding Girl – Madeleine Wickham
Madeleine Wickham is an excellent author, also writing under the name Sophie Kinsella, who brought us the Shopaholic series. She writes small and easy novels that are girly, gossipy and make you giggle. They’re light fun reads that fit nicely in a handbag for the train and that you think about all day. Would definitely recommend.
Listening To: Embers – Just Jack
I heard this beaut in the back of a Gossip Girl episode (yep, that’s still happening) and immediately whipped out my Soundhound app to hear what it was. I was pleased to know this stunning track is on Spotify and it’s been on replay pretty much ever since. A gorgeous song.
Wearing on my Body: Havaianas
I bought my black bejewelled Havis in Australia last year, after I fell in love with the same pair which my cousin owned. In this gorgeous weather, they haven’t been off my feet. Being black they go with anything, are super comfy and make whatever nail polish I’m rocking pop.
Wearing on my Face: Instablur
My love affair with Benefit’s Porefessional has come to an end. I’d read a lot about this Body Shop product Instablur on beauty blogs, so thought I’d give it a go, and we’ve embarked on a fully fledged fling. It’s a very odd consistency I must admit, but really does minimise pores and act as a great priming base for both foundation and powder. Again, would definitely recommend.
Leeks are one of my all-time favourite vegetables and are currently in season, meaning they’re much cheaper and better for the environment than if you bought them at another time of year. Leeks feature at least daily in my diet this time of year, being great on a roasting tray of vegetables, fried up with some peas and bacon for a side dish, or an ingredient in a healthy vegetable packed soup. Beaut of a veg.
Drinking: Coconut Water
I remember in Thailand we’d drink fresh coconut water every single day. Back in England however, I was greeted with unattractive cartons and even more unattractive prices. So I was absolutely thrilled to see M and S have launched a coconut water in a great sized bottle (currently on offer too!). It’s light, refreshing and almost tastes as good as the real thing!
What have you been up to this July?
Welcome to the 200th post of Bella’s Bits! I quite like milestones like this, little as they may be. It gives one a chance to quietly reflect on achievements. For this, I’ll do as I did for 100 posts in the making and share with you some of my favourite pieces of writing and posts from the last couple of years.
Way back when in 2012, I wrote a couple of letters to my camera, which got an amazing response (view by clicking here). One reader even told me I made them cry! This was a piece of writing that was very much just me sitting down by myself and pouring out all my thoughts and emotions, albeit about a camera! Fortunately, I found said camera a few days later and welcomed it back into my life with open arms here.
Another post which had a good response was this one titled X Factor Humble Pie. It involved my tipsy twitter ramblings whilst watching The X Factor a couple of years back, followed by sober reflections. It speaks for itself really.
A couple of posts that I feel really showcase my style of writing include Social Media Madness and Bella Evening, the latter of which I almost titled ‘The Importance of Being Alone’. I love this style of post, but I have to be in a certain kind of mood to write like this. These just go to show how much life influences writing, and vice versa almost and how living and loving your life is the most important thing of all, and if that inspires writing, well it’s just a bonus really.
And finally, a post I’m most proud of is rather personal to me, 2013 an amazing year. This was a rundown of all the accomplishments I’d achieved that year and even reading it now makes me swell with pride and emotion. I believe that reflection is such a key part to progression and moving forward. Sometimes, when you’re stuck in a rut or unsure of where life is headed, looking back can provide you with the motivation you need. Being proud and happy of what you’ve achieved in the past can refocus your direction in life and remind yourself that you can do anything. And that’s what this post did for me.
So a very happy 200 posts to Bella’s Bits, here’s to the next 200!